Life Experiences #2: The male species

This might be odd considering you're reading a post from a girl with a squeaky clean background of being in an all-girls high school and never having a boyfriend until she reached the age of 18 but hell, whether or not it came from my experience or my friends. I think EVERY girl out there who's ever dated would know what I'm talking about or maybe I'm just way too judgemental.

But ladies (& the rare guys out there who reads blog), there are 5 types of guys girls hate but can't help dating(or befriending) at least once in their life:

5. The Douchebag

Let's face it, our XX genetic predisposition seem to just LOVE getting ourselves involve with the bad boys or well, someone who's a know-it-all showing(off?) to you the other side of the world you've never experienced. Maybe it's the unpredictability of his action or wanting more of something you know he'll never give you but at first look, you just seem attracted to.. well, his douche-ness if that makes any sense at all.

Thankfully if you're not that dumb, you'll notice how toxic he is for you and run away the moment you see it. If not, I pray you have friends like mine who tell it straight to your face that he isn't for you hun. Then again, when do we ever listen?

4. Compulsive liars who lie for 'your sake' 

Of course it's sweet that he's trying to 'protect' you out of harm's way but then again, he is after all lying to you. Well, I really say it depends on the magnitude of the lie. Something as stupid as his one-time-habit in a past relationships should be maybe left in the past unless it's related to perhaps his ridiculous habit of flirting/cheating even at current moment. The worst lie: saying he 'loves/likes' you just so not to hurt you. Wow rly guys? What happens when you get sick of lying about your feelings; you still have to leave right? Jeez..

Either that or he man up and tell you the truth and you either accept it or find a way to solve it together.

3. 'I-will-always-be-there-for-you-when-I-can' type

I'm not asking you to skip work or exam to accompany me to the damn mall. I'm asking you to spend as much time as you can and not treat me as an option when I should be a priority. The scary thing about these types are you don't exactly know that you're an option until well, perhaps weeks later when you realise he starts to ditch you for everything else.

Please just do us girls a favour; if you're not ready to sacrifice a little bit of time (and a lot of money) do NOT even think about getting into a relationship.

2. Over-confident 'I know what I'm doing'

Refreshing exuberance of the male being dominant and doing what they want to do without anyone giving directions is such a huge turn-on. At least I hope I'm speaking for most of the female population but pls do feel free to comment back on otherwise, I'm just feeding what I observe mostly. I'm not saying confidence is a terrible thing, the male species definitely need that amount of leadership in a way, it's just the genetic evolution of dominance that it's only natural for us females to be attracted to such.

It's just creepy how some guys are so confident, they don't stop and listen to your opinions/feelings etc thinking they know what's best for you, for them and for hell, the rest of the world. Wow, just like stop for a min and remember other people are NOT wrong just cause they contradict what you are doing ya! Also, showing your weak side once in a while to your partner can be really sweet as there needs to be a certain amount of trust for it to show.

1. Sweet talkers

Yeah, alright. This SHOULDN'T be a bad thing right? Every guy should be sweet to the ones they care about/love/chasing for but there's defo something off when he can't stop doing it without hesitating/holding back or of course, when he says it to another million girls. Ugh pls. Say it when you feel like it and most of all, when you mean it & not just to get what your other brain is telling you.

Please don't get me wrong I'm not saying you shouldn't do it (especially if you're already in a serious relationship, take the time to enjoy your company and rediscover the best of your partner and be verbal about it), I'm just stating the mere fact that most sweet talkers who do it so confidently without any reluctance especially when you're dating might just be another player out there. 

That pretty much 'sums up' the 5 categories off the top of my head. Most of them were from observation now that I think about it, sorry but I just don't date around much (I probably would more but most guys just run off in the other direction when they get to know me) #foreveralone #criestosleep

That's all for tonight folks, now it's time to stop procrastinating as usual and off to work xx

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